Fast forward...
Has your life turned out like you imagined or is it completely different? Do you ever look back and wonder, "How did I get here?"
Today's guest poster talks about this very thing. I am so happy to have my bloggy friend Lacey from Little Miss Nerd Girl here on the blog today sharing her journey of how she became a stay-at-home momma. Not only does Lacey have a cool name *wink*, but she's super sweet and talented as well! If you ever need any help or a new design for your blog, she's your go to girl! So please take a minute to get to know the awesome momma...
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“Do you know what you call those who use towels and never wash them, eat meals and never do the dishes, sit in rooms they never clean, and are entertained till they drop? If you have just answered, ‘A house guest,’ you're wrong because I have just described my kids.” - Erma Bombeck
Earlier in the week, as I was walking with an armful of toys and water cups, I stopped and stared at what I was holding and wondered to myself, “How in the world did I end up a stay-at-home mom?”
I don’t want you to think I don’t like my “job.” I quite like it, love it even. As long as I have kids at home during the day, I hope that I can be home with them (however, I do wish I received a bit more time off than I do now). But three kids in two and a half years, staying home with them and living in Texas was never in my plans.
When I started high school I was going to go to college, get my degree in graphic design or computer animation, get married in my late twenties and then have kids several years later.
I had no idea.
No idea that I would soon end up hating school (after loving it my whole life) and ditch the college idea – which meant my awesome job as a designer or animator was ditched too.
No idea that at 18 years old I would meet my future husband and at the age of 20 we’d start dating.
No idea that six weeks after we started dating we’d be engaged.
No idea that I’d be married at the age of 21.
No idea that I’d leave California at the age of 23 to move to Texas - a state where we knew absolutely nobody.
No idea that I’d own my first home shortly after.
And the biggest thing I had no idea about was my future children. That after miscarrying once and not getting pregnant for four years we would be blessed with three children in less than three years.
No idea that I would want to stay home with those three squishy babes.
If you had told the fifteen year old me what was in store, I would have laughed at you. “No way,” I’d have said as I shook my head. “I have a plan. And there is no way I am getting married that young and having three kids.” I would have turned back to my journal and written about this crazy person telling me about my future and drawn a picture of you. I had no idea that my life would have turned out better than I could ever imagined or planned for. And, sometimes, having no idea what the future holds is a good thing.
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I absolutely love Lacey's last sentence, "And, sometimes, having no idea what the future holds is a good thing." Isn't that so true? I would love if you would show Lacey some love by stopping by her blog or fb page to say Hi. She's such a sweetheart and I know you'll love getting to know her!
Thanks Lacey for sharing your story with us today!
xoxo,
Lacee














